Can't Blame the Girl When He's the Agressor

I know, Guys are like dogs, if you put a piece of meat in front of them they are going to take a bite. So,when it comes to cheating I normally place more blame on the woman he cheats with then the guy. That being said, if the guy isn't wearing a ring, is flirting, and doesn't say that he's married he's completely at fault. Sorry to all the wife's, but you know when you're man is up to something. You can't blame the girl when he's the aggressor.

For example:

Miss. Spankalicious is out at the bar with some friends and meets Mr. Stroker. As soon as he's introduced to her he switches seats and plants himself next to her. He buys her drinks as they talk. She thinks he's super hot, he's totally into her. They kissed. Then one of his friends came up to her and said, "You know he's married right?"
No, Mr. Stroker failed to mention that. You would think that's something that would come up in conversation.
Just like that Mr. Stroker went from prince charming to a slimy frog and Miss. Spankalicious left him at the bar without another word. A couple days later Mr. Stroker asked a mutual friend about Miss. Spankalicious and said how he'd like to see her again. A couple weeks later Mr. Stroker asked a mutual friend to give Miss. Smankalicious his phone number because he'd like to hear from her. One night after a couple drinks Miss. Spankalicious drunk text Mr. Stroker because she wanted him to know that she wasn't some dumb girl he could play with so she went right for the jugular,

"Hi, this is Miss. Spankalicious."

"Hey! I really wanna see you again. What are you up to?"

" So, how's your wife?"

"Oh, you know about that? It's a complicated situation. We want different things."

"Yeah I could understand that, she wants to be married and you wanna sleep around."

"I don't want you to get the wrong idea of me, I have never cheated before. I just want to put that out there."

"And why would I believe that when you failed to mention that you were married in the first place?"

So, he says how he's miserable with his wife and how attracted to Miss. Spankalicious he is, and how he wanted to tell Miss. Spankalicious that he's married but didn't want to scare her off.

What do you do in this situation? On one hand, if what he say's is true and their relationship is circling the drain then there's nothing wrong with talking to Mr. Stroker, hell he might really be her prince charming. On the other hand, he could be completely full of shit with a wife at home he's kissing every night and stringing you along as a lil something on the side.



**Duh.. no real names were used in the writing of this blog**